Losing friends and the search for closure

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    N. Paola Gutierrez
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    Losing friendships can cause you more hurt than you think. At first, you might be happy you stopped talking to that annoying friend, but friendships began for a reason. We meet new people daily, but they are not all friend material.

    Closure and trust are the main factors that sustain a friendship.

    The lack of closure will be noticeable as time goes by. We realize that we lost something worth it when it is gone. It is in our nature.

    Losing friendships can cause you more hurt than you think. At first, you might be happy you stopped talking to that annoying friend, but friendships began for a reason. We meet new people daily, but they are not all friend material.

    Closure and trust are the main factors that sustain a friendship.

    The lack of closure will be noticeable as time goes by. We realize that we lost something worth it when it is gone. It is in our nature.

    After losing a long-lasting friendship, I lost it and gained it all. At first, I felt a weight come off my shoulders because I considered the friendship to be toxic.

    This was a long-term friendship; therefore we can assume that I felt 100 percent comfortable with this person.

    Having access to that person all the time to never again is something you can get used to. Being afraid to make new friendships because the last one screwed you over is acceptable.

    Losing friendships is not something we should blame ourselves for, but rather keep trying.

    I left my friends for my boyfriend. Yes, I was that girl.

    Sadly, I did not notice how I was slowly setting myself apart. It was my first boyfriend and I was excited to be experiencing love for the first time. This led me to cut friends who I considered to be unnecessary as well as losing contact with others. I did not care much at the time. I had a boyfriend and that was more important to me at the moment.

    Selfish and immature, right?

    After being in the relationship for quite a while I began to miss my friends. I lost my dearest friends because I took them for granted. Closure is something I lack now.

    Losing important friendships in my life have caused me contestant, social anxiety, and the feeling of awkwardness.

    I do not know whether it is okay for me to compliment a person without them getting offended. I feel such killer anxiety when I am alone with a new girlfriend – what do I say? Do we talk about makeup?

    This is no joke.

    Friendships help you develop communication and thinking skills. Having someone to vent to that you feel comfortable with is important. We all need someone we can trust. Closure is key to a healthy life and, especially, a healthy mind. 

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